The real differences between a player and a gentleman

So let’s say you’ve been misled to think that players are actually the gentlemen you’ve always wanted to be with. Let’s start with a clean slate and discuss their many differences.

#1 A gentleman will buy you little gifts. It’s not the amount of money that matters, but the fact that he gifted you something that you like. It could be anything from flowers to a bit of chocolate or even medicine (if u know what i mean :P )

#2 A gentleman won’t talk down to you. This means that he won’t call you a bitch or any other terms. He will see you as an equal and will treat you with respect, even when you’re fighting with him.

#3 A player may accidentally call you the wrong name. If your name is Shreeya and he accidentally calls you Shreya , there’s a good chance that there is a girl named Shreya somewhere who is occupying a lot of his attention

#4 A gentleman will make you feel comfortable. A gentleman won’t make comments that will make you feel insecure, or talk about things that you don’t like (maybe your past or so ) and help you come over it

#5  A player will flirt and deny. If you’ve been dating a guy and you see that he’s being too friendly with another woman, you may feel the bad / jealousy. However, a player will usually try to deny the fact that he’s close and make up things

#7 A gentleman will pay for your drink without asking for anything in return. Paying for your drink is yet another sign of good manners and his interest in you. Men work hard for their money and they just don’t spend it on anyone easily

A player may make you feel like you owe him at least your number or a kiss for that drink, but a gentleman to buy you a drink without pressuring you to do anything for him.

# 8 A gentleman will take you on actual dates. If a player wants to see you, he may just ask you to meet late night (just to get lucky or something) However, if a gentleman wants to see you, he will most likely  plan a date at an appropriate time.

#9 A gentleman will listen to you talk about your problems. He listens because he cares about what’s going on in your life

Dear Sisters ,

lots for bad guys out there ..just make sure you are Dating the right guy and not getting cheated !